There are three discoveries in the last 20 years that, together, point us toward hope for the next generation. First, in the Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACEs), conducted by Dr. Vincent Felitti in 1996, we found that the impact of childhood trauma on the biological development of the brain is the most significant determinant of nearly every negative health outcome — behaviorally, mentally, socially, emotionally and physically. In that same study, and many confirming studies, we also found that almost no one escapes childhood without experiencing trauma. Last, we learned that just as trauma changes the brain in unhealthy ways, the influence of caring adults and positive environments can influence it in healthy ways.
Three important discoveries of the last two decades:
Childhood trauma disrupts healthy brain development and leads to unhealthy outcomes.
Everyone experiences trauma
Caring adults and positive environments create resilience.
In Battle Ground, we have embraced and responded to these discoveries. Four years ago, we formed the Connect BG coalition to reverse increasing trends in teen suicide, substance abuse, truancy, bullying and other self-destructive behaviors. Informed by the long standing work of psychologist Alfred Adler, we understand that this kind of behavior is driven by a core desire for belonging and significance. Misbehavior comes from a misunderstanding of how to achieve belonging and significance.
We know that people need relational connection and a sense of purpose. If, as children, we are exposed to unhealthy levels of toxic stress, our brains are continually washed with adrenaline and cortisol. Our experiences strengthen neural pathways that support beliefs that we are alone, unsafe and unimportant. These broken beliefs disconnect us and leave us in a mode of self-preservation.
However, with the discoveries we have made in the last two decades leading us, we now know that this behavior is not an indicator of a “bad kid;” it is, instead, an indicator of a traumatized kid. In place of punishment and isolation, they need relationship, hope and meaning. This is a big shift in traditional understanding and response. But it follows our cultural growth in understanding that all humans are worthy of dignity and respect.
The Connect BG Coalition has established a strategy, based on proven science, that makes it possible to turn trauma into resilience.
Since we know that nearly everyone has experienced trauma, and we also know that many people who have, are not participating in self-destructive behaviors - we know that resilience is possible. The remaining question then, is, what causes resilience?
The two most powerful causes are: Caring Adults and Positive Environments. In healthy relationships and environments, we can offset the negative impact of trauma. We can empower and encourage children, teach them skills, help them change perspective, learn to relate, understand their significance and feel a sense of belonging.
This is what October is about in Battle Ground. Spread the word that hope is greater than despair. There is work to be done but we know what the work is and we know how to do it. Our younger generation is not only full of potential for their future, but we rely on them for ours. It will take more than just teachers, parents and counselors to get this work done. All of us can connect and play a significant role. The work of transformation takes time, effort and wide participation. How will you connect?
