Editor,
On Thanksgiving, as I was pumping gas, a young man was searching through the trash cans for something to eat. One customer rudely told him to get a job. Another quickly got in their car when he got nearby. The shop attendant offered him something to eat, but the young man declined and said he would leave the premises. He was nothing but polite while he munched on some stale fries he took out of the trash. I cried.
In a world often divided by differences — religion, politics, lifestyle, beliefs, etc. — there’s a universal truth that connects all of us: We are human, and we all long for love, acceptance and purpose. These are not lofty ideals but essential needs, and it’s up to each of us to foster them in one another. This doesn’t require wealth, power or extraordinary talent. It simply requires intention, kindness and the willingness to be introspective of oneself to see the humanity in others.
Uplifting others is a choice we can all make. It means taking the time to recognize the struggles of those around us and offering a genuine word of encouragement, a helping hand or simply just being there for someone. It’s about empowering others to see their own worth and supporting them as they find their purpose. In doing so, we create a ripple effect of positivity that extends far beyond the individuals we touch.
Love and understanding are the antidotes to the greed and hate that infiltrate our world. When we empower someone — by listening without judgment, respecting others, extending opportunities for growth — we work to break the forces that divide. We show that it is possible to live harmoniously, even if we don’t always agree. In fact, our differences can become a source of strength when approached with curiosity and respect.
Purpose is another key component of building a better world. People without purpose are left vulnerable to despair, isolation, even anger. When we authentically help others discover and hone their unique gifts and empower them to contribute to their communities, they are given an opportunity to thrive. Purpose connects individuals to something greater than themselves and inspires them to pay it forward.
This is not something reserved for religious leaders, philanthropists or activists. Each of us can do something. Let someone know you believe in them. Thank someone who feels invisible. Show patience and understanding when it’s easier to be dismissive or angry.
Recognize the humanity inside every person, regardless of their opinions or lifestyle. These acts may seem small, but they build the bridges that cross the river of hate and despair that flows so consistently.
Religious or not, all of us are human and we all want to feel accepted, valued and purposeful. So, this holiday season, don’t be afraid of what you may not understand. Life is full of pain. Accept that. Learn from it. Figure out how you can make a difference so that maybe someone feels a little less pain, if only for a short while.
Jordan Tyler
Longview
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